Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Answers [??]

Well it was a cascade of events which lead me to write this entry, I was at my grocery store purchasing my day to day stuff, when a kid on to his father lap came in too, the father handed him a hundred note to give over, but because I was the one standing next to him and was the closest, he offered me instead. When his father corrected him to hand it to the gentleman on the other side of the counter; the guy handed him his one litre milk, and returned the change which the kid happily accepted and they left. Well nothing fancy or strange, but having attended a seminar a few months back on Project Management our trainer narrated a similar incident (only in this case the story continued; read on..) the child similarly was asked to hand over the money to the guy behind the counter in return for some stuff; (and the kid got a learning), next time the family was paid a visit by some relatives of theirs and the old member had brought him some choclates which the kid took, after some time he returned back and handed over our old uncle a fifty "This is for the choclates". The mom blushed and told "No beta, that’s your uncle", the kid perplexed and maybe he added something to his verbiage or understanding.

The lesson for us, children in their growing years need to be told the right answers for their own sake, and their silly questions shouldn't be looked over just because they are kids only then will they learn to ask the right questions later on, only then will they get a correct understanding of the things around, only then will they not interpret themselves. I have seen many people simply ignore their children queries simply because they are busy in other chores or these silly rhetoric doesn’t fit in their schedule; but the same people would go out lengths to spend a fortune for their child's education. I guess the education starts at home and at a very basic level. I remember I read a book about a person whose mom only asked his son one thing its not whether he answered the questions asked; but whether he could ask one good question that day.

It because a child looks at a problem/statement at its basic nature is he/she able to understand it at its core; its the reason why children are said to be wise; but as we grow we complex the questions and thus the answers. But that was on a totally different note. Coming to our adult world also our world is simply a quest to evolve through the various question and to know things around. Only the context changes.

I just thought to pay the quote world a visit, and here are some gud ones:

What if this weren't a hypothetical question? : Unknown

A psychiatrist is a fellow who asks you a lot of expensive questions your wife asks for nothing. : Joey Adams

Charm is a way of getting the answer yes without asking a clear question. : Albert Camus

The important thing is not to stop questioning. : Albert Einstein

You know that children are growing up when they start asking questions that have answers. : John J. Plomp


So next time its time for an answer, do reply back, only then will the true exploration begin. A right answer will lead to a right question!

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Blogger Fuzzylogic said...

I agree 100%.I have seen so many parents brush the questions aside or give some vague answers.Perhaps a lot many questions might be too complex for them to understand but perhaps you ought to try simplifying them.But kids do ask a loo..ot of questions,to the point of annoyance.Then again who else but the parents who are best suited to help them learn.LOL about the psychiatrist quote:)

Thursday, March 15, 2007 4:25:00 AM  
Blogger By Deepa and Supriya said...

I am living life all over again through my li'l one ..he asks so amny questions and I wonder if I ever did when I was growing up and it is amazing to see his little mind at work :)

Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:00:00 PM  
Blogger Rebus said...

@Fuzzylogic: Well; imagine landing on a new planet and meet that martian; wouldnt you have a thousand question ;)

@Orchid: Yep; only if we accept we that curiosity we can work towards it; rather against it.

This is the only way they will understand the things around them; or use their own logic!

Friday, March 16, 2007 7:39:00 PM  
Blogger Viewer said...

Seriosuly we need to carefully mould kids because they only grow in the direction we show them. If parents make any mistakes in bringing up a child it effects them for life long and sometime kids might end up blaming the parents when they realise that there was some gap in thrie upbrining.. Its a scary thought for me that we (when we will parents) have the power to mould someone life the way we want to. But the most scariest part is wht if we go worng ...

Tuesday, March 20, 2007 2:28:00 PM  
Blogger Rebus said...

@Viewer: Long time no C; well you are right; but we are humans; maybe our parents too did some; but things came by fine, aint it; better then drifting by themselve!

Tuesday, March 20, 2007 6:16:00 PM  
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Friday, May 04, 2007 5:34:00 PM  
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Friday, June 01, 2007 8:17:00 PM  

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